Advice on dating a guy with kids

Your new guy may be constantly complaining to you about his ex and before you know it, you are both caught up in the drama of continually talking about her latest antics.

Kids can be great bonuses to meeting someone new and they can also be nightmares just as easily.

When a man gets older he realizes that the chance of meeting a childless woman thins dramatically and the question of “how” may come to his mind in dealing with a child that isn’t his.

The single parent dilemma is felt the hardest by the children, and as a product of such a household I am lucky enough to have this insight in my dating life.

How well has your guy worked through the angst of his marriage ending? Some will try to alienate their children from their father as well as his new partner.Privacy in the home becomes difficult because angry mothers tend to interrogate their children when they return home from Dad's house.Some love to file court hearings at the drop of a hat and there is the potential for you, if you are living or ultimately married to him, to be pulled into these post-marital dramas. Many of you may have found out the hard way that your new love had lousy boundaries with his ex.I saw her irritability as evidence that she was a narcissistic psycho. You wouldn’t want to go out with a man who put you before the needs of his kids.Give him the space to be a caring dad and he will love you for it.