Others will have a more accurate sense of who would be suited to you, and make suggestions accordingly.The Rationale for Shidduch Coaching Lately, Yocheved has been waking up at night worrying about her daughter, Shevi. Yocheved knows that Shevi has always been an A student and that she will succeed in all academic areas.But, as date after date ends in rejection, she has begun to worry if there isn't something more going on.Her conversations with Shevi on the topic typically end in frustration and anger."Mommy, I told you. The opinions, facts and any media content here are presented solely by the author, and The Times of Israel assumes no responsibility for them. His newest book is called "Abuse in the Jewish Community: Religious and Communal Factors that Undermine the Apprehension of Offenders and the Treatment of Victims." [Less] Two important articles about the Shidduch Crisis have appeared in the last few days. He is the author of numerous articles, several psychological tests and books including "The Shidduch Crisis: Causes and Cures" (Urim Publications) and "Every Pot Has a Cover" (University Press of America).So, why does Shevi have so much trouble going on dates?At first, Yocheved thought that Shevi was simply going on dates with the wrong boys - boys who couldn't understand how special her daughter is.
Going back to even earlier times, there were popular and respected Orthodox shuls that sponsored dances for singles.You can be part of the problem or you can be part of the solution.If I were to complain and have an intellectual discussion with no intent to actually do anything, I might be able to convince you or even myself that in some way I was doing something positive by raising awareness.The first, written by Jon Birger, the author of an important new book called Date-onomics: How Dating Became a Lopsided Numbers Game, explores the similarities between Mormons and Orthodox Jews and the crises both groups seem to have when it comes to dating and marriage.What Two Religions Tell Us about the Modern Dating Crisis explores religious dropout rates, demographic issues, and financial concerns that affect dating in these two cultures.